Best Low to No Cost Places to Elope in Raleigh/Durham

Tuesday, January 17, 2023

I’m a wedding officiant living in Durham, North Carolina and over the past years COVID has increased demand for Elopements and Micro-Weddings. People often ask me if I have any recommendations for where they should hold the ceremony. I have officiated at least one elopement in each of these beautiful locations. I highly recommend hopping in your car and checking out any public park that’s conveniently located to you, there are so many good options, you might find a hidden gem! However, if you don’t want to do a lot of searching, I personally know from experience that all of these locations are lovely.

Carly, Kaitlyn, and Nick, standing against one of the picnic shelters in Umstead Park.

At the time of writing, these locations all have either a small or no fee for having your elopement there. You should confirm with each individual location whether or not they are currently charging fees at the time of your elopement and confirm any rules you must follow or permits that need to be obtained.

Umstead Park, Raleigh

This has always been a popular location for Elopements or Micro Weddings, I’ve officiated weddings here even before the pandemic. There are quite a few trails you can get married along if you want a more woodsy feel to your ceremony, and there’s also a beautiful lake if you want to be by the water. There are shorter and longer trails, though most weddings require at least a small degree of hiking. There are also picnic shelters available in case of rain.

Umstead Park Website

Carly, Drew, and Kayla standing in Umstead Park, greenery in the background, they’re all wearing masks, but smiling with their eyes

Duke Park, Durham

Duke Park is a great little park in Durham to elope at if you don’t want to do a lot of walking/hiking. There are pretty trees you can use as a backdrop, or a picnic shelter if it rains.

Duke Park Website

Carly marrying a couple under a picnic shelter in Duke Park

Anderson Point Park, Raleigh

This park is similar to Duke Park, but located in Raleigh. It’s a beautiful little park with not as much hiking required and also has shelter in case of rain. Just take a short walk and decide if you want to get married in a wide open field or next to beautiful old trees.

Anderson Point Park Website

Sand Ceremony setup in front of a large tree in Anderson Point Park

WRAL Azalea Gardens, Raleigh

The Azalea Gardens are particularly lovely in the spring and fall when the azalea’s are blooming, but the park is full of other North Carolina trees and flowers that brought back fond memories of childhood growing up on the Outer Banks for me. There is generally a pricier fee for renting the space for weddings, but recently they have waived their fee for small elopements because of covid. (Always confirm the current rules/prices for all of these locations as things are often changing due to covid.)

WRAL Azalea Gardens Website

Stefanie, Carly, and Cas stand in the Azelea Gardens

Lake Crabtree County Park, Morrisville

Another lovely park, similar to Umstead in some ways, with both forest and lake views as options, there are also longer trails than some of these other options, though locations accessible to the parking lot are also available.

Lake Crabtree Park Website

Carly marrying Rikki and Liz at Lake Crabtree Park

Duke Forest, Durham

Duke Forest is another expansive area with many trails and ponds and all sorts of beautiful natural backgrounds for your ceremony. Dogs enjoy it too! Check out the area and decide if you want a long hike or a short one!

Duke Forest Website

Carly marrying a couple in Duke Forest while their golden retriever watches

Eno River

There are multiple lovely locations along the Eno River to get married, West Point on the Eno has the Old Saw Mill and the Cole Mill Road Access has a swinging bridge. Plus the beautiful river, rocks, and trees are available at any location! Most couples scout out a place ahead of time and let me know where to meet them.

Ashley, Carly, and Amanda stand smiling with the old saw mill in the background

Falls Lake Park, Wake Forest

For those in the Wake Forest Area, Falls Lake offers an expansive variety of woods, trails, and ponds as well, just make sure everyone is on the same page about which access point you’re meeting at!

Falls Lake Park Website

Photo on Falls Lake

Bonus: Windy Hill Farm, Cedar Grove

If you want to splurge a little, Windy Hill Farm offers low cost elopement packages on their beautiful farm. Every time I drive out there I can feel my body relaxing as I take in the sights of the open fields on the road. Just a short drive from Durham, but enough to make you feel out in the country. There are all sorts of animals that might join your elopement too, from barn cats to goats! There are multiple indoor and outdoor locations you could stage the ceremony, with barns in the background, trees, animals, you name it!

Windy Hill Farm Website

Sonya, Kevin, and Carly at Windy Hill Farm, a large tree and barn in the background



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