Welcome! My name is Carly Miller and I am an ordained minister in the Universal Life Church. I also have a Master of Theological Studies from Duke Divinity School. I am located in Durham, North Carolina, and provide services to all of North Carolina and beyond. I want to help you find words for the most magical day of your life, when you publicly declare your love and commitment to another person. I am particularly interested and committed to doing services for the LBGTQIA+ community and for those who want their geek, nerd, or cosplay side to be represented in their service in some way, or integrated into every part. I am also dedicated to serving those who are in mixed religion, culture, or race marriages, couples who hold to religious or spiritual beliefs that may not fit well into any one religion, or those who do not hold religious or spiritual beliefs. I’m also very open to straight couples and those who may want a more traditional marriage service.
I also strive to keep my website and officiating process accessible to those with disabilities, so please let me know if you are experiencing difficulties and I will be happy to accommodate you!
I’m happy to work with any couple whether they already know exactly what they want to say in their service or they want to brainstorm ideas with me. I love meeting new people and hearing their love stories and what they value and nerd out about whether that’s religious or spiritual beliefs, or simply the beauty in the world, science, nature, or each other. I can wear a dress, suit, robes (clerical or Harry Potter), or any other costume or cosplay that fits your wedding. Though I am not fluent in Spanish or Hebrew, I am able to read smoothly in both languages, if the couple wishes me to read something during the ceremony in either or both of these languages.
Call, text (252) 202-8982 or email me carly (at) carlyjanemiller (dot) com today for a free no-pressure consultation!